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I would like to talk to two people who had been an integral part of my life a couple of years ago. I won’t take the names but yeah being with someone for quite some time irrespective of meeting them in person or not, leaving abruptly for your own reasons is not really good practice.
I don’t really know what their reasons might be but had they told me that this is why I’m taking this decision to move far away or distant, I would have been a lot more at peace with myself.
I think nobody ever understands the feeling of worthlessness one feels when the people they are close with decide to move on with life without giving a chance to ask questions or the opportunity to know answers.
It feels like going into a deep pit of the abyss where everything is dark and the one who went away would never turn back because they moved on for whatever good they had in life, but what about the one that has been left without answers, clueless and going into a loop of self-blaming and never-ending thirst that could never be quenched.
But yeah, just like everything in life I moved on and I have zero regrets but if by chance in the next 50/60 odd years if I come across them in person, I would only want to know the reason about their sudden disappearance and what would have happened in their life that they didn’t even feel the need to give a reason. Whatever be it, I only want to be a positive influence in people’s lives and that’s what I try to be if people have moved on then so be it.
It’s become common but still, there is room to be talked about and I think many people would have stories of people just abruptly leaving for reasons unknown putting the others in doubt.
